My dear daughter, how adventurous this past year has been. The challenges that came were expected, as this was your third year, and we had a new baby, but it was definitely the hardest year yet. However, mommy and daddy faced it and we conquered! We love you little girl, and you have truly grown and changed this year in ways that were unbelievable!
Our patience was tested with your temper tantrums, yelling, screaming, saying "no" non-stop and your ability to argue. We discovered that this was your way of expressing your desire for independence, your ability to think through things on your own and your want to make decisions. Every day was a trial that had to be overcome, for you and for us.
With the birth of your baby brother, you became a big sister. You could not be more proud of him and your ability to help him. You love him so much, tend for him, help mommy and daddy, bring him toys, make him giggle, kiss him non-stop and consider him your best friend. The relationship that has developed is beautiful and we are grateful to have you here as our helper and the best big sister!
Through all of this, we were able to grow as parents, to gain the ability to acknowledge your feelings and your desires and to trust in you to lead and guide us to help you become the girl you are growing up to be. Boundaries were set, bargainings were made and compromises were met. We all worked together to help each other and this year is one that we will all look back on as a growing year!
Even with all of that, we couldn't love you more. You are energetic, intelligent, heartfelt, independent, beautiful, loving, kind, caring and passionate! You take control of situations and love to have things your way. We love your independence and appreciate your determination. You will become a leader, one who demands the attention.
You are truly a blessing from our Heavenly Father and we are very lucky to have you as our daughter.
My Bristol, I love you so. I love your tenacious independence. It is amazing to see this in you at such a young age, I know you will make big things happen. Thank you for choosing me as your mommy. I learn from you everyday.
Love always,
Mommy
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